The Mind Loops Blog – Nov 2021 If you were to place bets on who would win, between a fun friendship… and loads (pun intended) of multiple orgasms (along with NEW LOVE)… which do you think would win? I’d guess most people would place their coins on the orgasms + love. Because we all know … More When You Can’t Compete With Multiple Orgasms – (and Other Losses)
The Mind Loops Blog – Oct 2021 Recently I attended a friend’s art show. It was a group show in a TINY gallery, with art that ranged from Big Cartoons… to “Abstracts” (more like: “Let’s get super HIGH and PAINT!”)… to Andy Warhol Wannabes. (sorry guys). Some were pretty cool. (I liked the dark red … More CUT IT OUT!
The Mind Loops Blog There is no better time than during this crazy period of upheaval, change and Covid, to ask yourself (finally!) this very important question: “Is THIS working for me?” “THIS” being: • my relationship(s) • job/career • clothing style • home • city • food choices • habits • thought patterns • … More Do This For Massive CLARITY and SOLUTIONS
Aargh! Recently I woke up at the ridiculous hour of 4am LOOPING on the fact I haven’t yet gotten the movers to pay for the damn sticky tape residue they left on my 1856 antique credenza. LOOPING. Again… and again… and again… “I’ve procrastinated on this for 3 months! Will they say, ‘Too late slow-poke!’… … More De-loop Worries & Anxiety (time sensitive, y’all!)
Ever get T-R-I-G-G-E-R-E-D? Oh gawd… Haven’t we all? 😦 What a disaster it FEELS like to be triggered, and what disasters we CREATE from that state. We blow up, chew out, make hasty decisions, drive erratically, put ourselves or others in danger, connect with weird people, experience regrets, get pounding headaches, trash things we’ve created … More H.A.L.T.! When You’re STRESSED and Feel Like Kicking Someone’s @$$ – and Do This Instead
Ever float in a neon tunnel with millions of people talking to you at the same time? Me neither.(good thing too, I have enough trouble hearing multiple conversations at parties But José Hernandez has. Ever fly on the wings of a butterfly into a glowing void? Me neither.(what’d you say? you flew on the wings … More Ever float in a neon tunnel with millions of people talking to you at the same time?
Ever had food poisoning? I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. (well… I can think of ONE person I wouldn’t mind having it lol). I recently became the sorry victim of a virulent strain of a mighty bacteria. From undercooked salmon. It wasn’t pretty. In fact, after purging for 3 long sessions during the … More What I Learned From Mega-Barfing & Pooping (at the same time)
It’s a sunny day, you’re enjoying your drive, listening to great tunes. You start merging onto the freeway… but the muscle car in your lane ain’t slowin’ down for NO ONE – even though your on-ramp is short and the guard rail looms into view. You scream a few Hail Mary’s* and yank the steering … More Stoic Wisdom To Deal With Anger & Stress
The Mind Loops Blog – Sept 2020 – This is the first in the “What If “series The words, “What if…?” are two of the most anxiety-producing words in the English language. We yank out these two simple words whenever we start worrying about something. Where does it lead us? Down the horrendous pit of … More WHAT IF… Your Life Actually DOES Matter?
[NOTE: This is Part Two of a 5-part series: “To-DON’T List: 5 Things To NOT Do If You Want To Be Happy.”] You’ve got your To-Do List. But what about your To-DON’T list? Those are at least as important as the “Do” ones. Today we cover the second one on the list… “The longer you … More Replays Are For Your DVR, Not Your Negative Memories – So Let’s Stop Replaying Them!
HOW TO STOP NEGATIVE THOUGHTS 