Do This For Massive CLARITY and SOLUTIONS

The Mind Loops Blog There is no better time than during this crazy period of upheaval, change and Covid, to ask yourself (finally!) this very important question: “Is THIS working for me?” “THIS” being: • my relationship(s) • job/career • clothing style • home • city • food choices • habits • thought patterns • … More Do This For Massive CLARITY and SOLUTIONS

De-loop Worries & Anxiety (time sensitive, y’all!)

Aargh! Recently I woke up at the ridiculous hour of 4am LOOPING on the fact I haven’t yet gotten the movers to pay for the damn sticky tape residue they left on my 1856 antique credenza. LOOPING. Again… and again… and again… “I’ve procrastinated on this for 3 months! Will they say, ‘Too late slow-poke!’… … More De-loop Worries & Anxiety (time sensitive, y’all!)

H.A.L.T.! When You’re STRESSED and Feel Like Kicking Someone’s @$$ – and Do This Instead

Ever get T-R-I-G-G-E-R-E-D? Oh gawd… Haven’t we all? 😦 What a disaster it FEELS like to be triggered, and what disasters we CREATE from that state. We blow up, chew out, make hasty decisions, drive erratically, put ourselves or others in danger, connect with weird people, experience regrets, get pounding headaches, trash things we’ve created … More H.A.L.T.! When You’re STRESSED and Feel Like Kicking Someone’s @$$ – and Do This Instead

Ever float in a neon tunnel with millions of people talking to you at the same time?

Ever float in a neon tunnel with millions of people talking to you at the same time? Me neither.(good thing too, I have enough trouble hearing multiple conversations at parties But José Hernandez has. Ever fly on the wings of a butterfly into a glowing void? Me neither.(what’d you say? you flew on the wings … More Ever float in a neon tunnel with millions of people talking to you at the same time?

What I Learned From Mega-Barfing & Pooping (at the same time)

Ever had food poisoning? I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. (well… I can think of ONE person I wouldn’t mind having it lol). I recently became the sorry victim of a virulent strain of a mighty bacteria. From undercooked salmon. It wasn’t pretty. In fact, after purging for 3 long sessions during the … More What I Learned From Mega-Barfing & Pooping (at the same time)

Replays Are For Your DVR, Not Your Negative Memories – So Let’s Stop Replaying Them!

[NOTE: This is Part Two of a 5-part series: “To-DON’T List: 5 Things To NOT Do If You Want To Be Happy.”] You’ve got your To-Do List. But what about your To-DON’T list? Those are at least as important as the “Do” ones.  Today we cover the second one on the list… “The longer you … More Replays Are For Your DVR, Not Your Negative Memories – So Let’s Stop Replaying Them!

5 Strategies To Pop A Worrywart and Stop Stressing About What Others Think Of You

[NOTE: This is Part One of a 5-part series: “To-DON’T List: 5 Things To NOT Do If You Want To Be Happy.”] We’ve all used To-Do Lists at some point to keep us on-track when life gets especially complex (or to remember the boring tasks we’d rather forget). But to actually accomplish your dreams and … More 5 Strategies To Pop A Worrywart and Stop Stressing About What Others Think Of You

When a Mind Loop Hits, Find Your Trail of Breadcrumbs

The Mind Loops Blog – Oct 2017 – “When a Mind Loop Hits, Find Your Trail of Breadcrumbs” One week ago I returned from Peru. It wasn’t an easy trip; the itinerary we’d set for ourselves was incredibly complex. And while all types of travel has its share of bumps, traveling in a Third World … More When a Mind Loop Hits, Find Your Trail of Breadcrumbs