The Mind Loops Blog – Nov 2021 There must be something about that red cape. Because like a bull rushing for the red muletta, the wolf was always after Little Red Riding Hood. That is… until he got a cell phone. I ran across this New Yorker cartoon and thought: Omg!! This artist hit the … More When the Big Bad Wolf Ignores Red Riding Hood – or – Time To Stop Being Someone’s Door Mat!
The Mind Loops Blog – Nov 2021 If you were to place bets on who would win, between a fun friendship… and loads (pun intended) of multiple orgasms (along with NEW LOVE)… which do you think would win? I’d guess most people would place their coins on the orgasms + love. Because we all know … More When You Can’t Compete With Multiple Orgasms – (and Other Losses)
The Mind Loops Blog – Oct 2021 Recently I attended a friend’s art show. It was a group show in a TINY gallery, with art that ranged from Big Cartoons… to “Abstracts” (more like: “Let’s get super HIGH and PAINT!”)… to Andy Warhol Wannabes. (sorry guys). Some were pretty cool. (I liked the dark red … More CUT IT OUT!
The Mind Loops Blog There is no better time than during this crazy period of upheaval, change and Covid, to ask yourself (finally!) this very important question: “Is THIS working for me?” “THIS” being: • my relationship(s) • job/career • clothing style • home • city • food choices • habits • thought patterns • … More Do This For Massive CLARITY and SOLUTIONS
Aargh! Recently I woke up at the ridiculous hour of 4am LOOPING on the fact I haven’t yet gotten the movers to pay for the damn sticky tape residue they left on my 1856 antique credenza. LOOPING. Again… and again… and again… “I’ve procrastinated on this for 3 months! Will they say, ‘Too late slow-poke!’… … More De-loop Worries & Anxiety (time sensitive, y’all!)
Ever get T-R-I-G-G-E-R-E-D? Oh gawd… Haven’t we all? 😦 What a disaster it FEELS like to be triggered, and what disasters we CREATE from that state. We blow up, chew out, make hasty decisions, drive erratically, put ourselves or others in danger, connect with weird people, experience regrets, get pounding headaches, trash things we’ve created … More H.A.L.T.! When You’re STRESSED and Feel Like Kicking Someone’s @$$ – and Do This Instead
Ever float in a neon tunnel with millions of people talking to you at the same time? Me neither.(good thing too, I have enough trouble hearing multiple conversations at parties But José Hernandez has. Ever fly on the wings of a butterfly into a glowing void? Me neither.(what’d you say? you flew on the wings … More Ever float in a neon tunnel with millions of people talking to you at the same time?
Ever had food poisoning? I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. (well… I can think of ONE person I wouldn’t mind having it lol). I recently became the sorry victim of a virulent strain of a mighty bacteria. From undercooked salmon. It wasn’t pretty. In fact, after purging for 3 long sessions during the … More What I Learned From Mega-Barfing & Pooping (at the same time)
It’s a sunny day, you’re enjoying your drive, listening to great tunes. You start merging onto the freeway… but the muscle car in your lane ain’t slowin’ down for NO ONE – even though your on-ramp is short and the guard rail looms into view. You scream a few Hail Mary’s* and yank the steering … More Stoic Wisdom To Deal With Anger & Stress
(PLUS: I will be the Guest Speaker, LIVE on Zoom, Tues, June 1st, 2021. Zoom invite link is listed below) With your permission, I’d like to start with a word of advice: Follow the “breadcrumbs” that appear in your life. What are “breadcrumbs”? These are the hints, leads, random comments, dreams, song lyrics and intuitive … More I call him Napoleon Bona-HEART – a Napoleon with a different kind of “power”