The Mind Loops Blog There is no better time than during this crazy period of upheaval, change and Covid, to ask yourself (finally!) this very important question: “Is THIS working for me?” “THIS” being: • my relationship(s) • job/career • clothing style • home • city • food choices • habits • thought patterns • … More Do This For Massive CLARITY and SOLUTIONS
Aargh! Recently I woke up at the ridiculous hour of 4am LOOPING on the fact I haven’t yet gotten the movers to pay for the damn sticky tape residue they left on my 1856 antique credenza. LOOPING. Again… and again… and again… “I’ve procrastinated on this for 3 months! Will they say, ‘Too late slow-poke!’… … More De-loop Worries & Anxiety (time sensitive, y’all!)
Ever get T-R-I-G-G-E-R-E-D? Oh gawd… Haven’t we all? 😦 What a disaster it FEELS like to be triggered, and what disasters we CREATE from that state. We blow up, chew out, make hasty decisions, drive erratically, put ourselves or others in danger, connect with weird people, experience regrets, get pounding headaches, trash things we’ve created … More H.A.L.T.! When You’re STRESSED and Feel Like Kicking Someone’s @$$ – and Do This Instead
Ever float in a neon tunnel with millions of people talking to you at the same time? Me neither.(good thing too, I have enough trouble hearing multiple conversations at parties But José Hernandez has. Ever fly on the wings of a butterfly into a glowing void? Me neither.(what’d you say? you flew on the wings … More Ever float in a neon tunnel with millions of people talking to you at the same time?
Ever had food poisoning? I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. (well… I can think of ONE person I wouldn’t mind having it lol). I recently became the sorry victim of a virulent strain of a mighty bacteria. From undercooked salmon. It wasn’t pretty. In fact, after purging for 3 long sessions during the … More What I Learned From Mega-Barfing & Pooping (at the same time)
The Mind Loops Blog – Sept 2020 – This is the first in the “What If “series The words, “What if…?” are two of the most anxiety-producing words in the English language. We yank out these two simple words whenever we start worrying about something. Where does it lead us? Down the horrendous pit of … More WHAT IF… Your Life Actually DOES Matter?
The Mind Loops Blog: Thanks+Giving – Nov, 2017 Thanksgiving is here! While it’s my fave holiday, I know it creates a TON of problems for many people. With all the organizing involved – not to mention some challenging family gatherings – Mind Loops of exhaustion, stress, resentments or loneliness are bound to get triggered. One way I’ve … More Thanks+Giving
The B-Blog: “How To Ignite Your Life and Be a Natural Born Hero” – Sept, 2016 Last week I fulfilled a major Bucket List item. If you haven’t heard of a Bucket List before, it’s a list of things you want to do, become, have, or visit before you “kick the bucket.” For someone who’s … More How To Ignite Your Life and Be a Natural Born Hero
B-Blog: “A Secret Mind Loop About Strangers” – September, 2016 Today on my morning walk, it occurred to me that EVERYONE has been through something intense. Something difficult. A divorce, a death in the family, abuse, bankruptcy, heartbreak, dreams smashed, homelessness, loneliness, depression… Hardship comes in many flavors. NO ONE escapes the intensity of life. … More A Secret Mind Loop About Strangers
“Be at war with your vices.” What does that mean exactly – and how might you WIN that war? Sept, 2015 – I know of a company that hands out questionnaires asking for feedback on their service and products. That’s all fine and dandy except for one slight problem: I heard one of their highest-level … More Ben Franklin Did It and You Can Too