“My Sob Story Is Worse Than Yours!” (and other bad Mind Loop habits)

The Mind Loops Blog – September 2023 Some years ago I had a friend whom I adored. The type of friend that you could tell everything to. There were several times however when I’d share with her a painful experience from childhood – hoping for support and compassion – and instead she’d scoff and say, … More “My Sob Story Is Worse Than Yours!” (and other bad Mind Loop habits)

Sail Through the Treacherous Waters of the Thanksgiving Holiday With Ease

The Mind Loops Blog – Nov 2021 The Thanksgiving holiday can easily get hijacked. We’ve all witnessed or heard of the obnoxious, rude, or nasty relatives. The freaky food. The farty, burpy, barfy feelings after over-ingesting loads of gluten, sugar… and just plain WEIRD STUFF.(and jeesh, did you know the average calories consumed on this … More Sail Through the Treacherous Waters of the Thanksgiving Holiday With Ease

When the Big Bad Wolf Ignores Red Riding Hood – or – Time To Stop Being Someone’s Door Mat!

The Mind Loops Blog – Nov 2021 There must be something about that red cape. Because like a bull rushing for the red muletta, the wolf was always after Little Red Riding Hood. That is… until he got a cell phone. Yep, I’ve been there (in Red Riding’s shoes). Ignored, and dissed. By a damn … More When the Big Bad Wolf Ignores Red Riding Hood – or – Time To Stop Being Someone’s Door Mat!

When You Can’t Compete With Multiple Orgasms – (and Other Losses)

The Mind Loops Blog – Nov 2021 If you were to place bets on who would win, between a fun friendship… and loads (pun intended) of multiple orgasms (along with NEW LOVE)… which do you think would win? I’d guess most people would place their coins on the orgasms + love. Because we all know … More When You Can’t Compete With Multiple Orgasms – (and Other Losses)