When the Big Bad Wolf Ignores Red Riding Hood – or – Time To Stop Being Someone’s Door Mat!

The Mind Loops Blog – Nov 2021 There must be something about that red cape. Because like a bull rushing for the red muletta, the wolf was always after Little Red Riding Hood. That is… until he got a cell phone. I ran across this New Yorker cartoon and thought: Omg!! This artist hit the … More When the Big Bad Wolf Ignores Red Riding Hood – or – Time To Stop Being Someone’s Door Mat!

Someone Mad At You? Ask Yourself This First…

Are you a people-pleaser? Does someone being mad at you send you into a series of Mind Loops? Before you rush off to try and patch things up, there’s something to ask yourself first… A lot of people with Mind Loops (repetitive, negative thoughts and worries) are people-pleasers. I’m not pointing fingers here – because … More Someone Mad At You? Ask Yourself This First…

How To Stop Worrying and Get a Little Peace o’ Mind

Are you a worrier? Have anxiety, or feel anxious in social settings? Fret about your health (or someone else’s)… or what other people think of you… or your future? Before my near-death experience, I was a big-time worrier – particularly when it came to the health of one specific, dear friend. I used to wake … More How To Stop Worrying and Get a Little Peace o’ Mind